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Kenneth Tzoner


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 453 Location: UK
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:12 pm Post subject: Disorders, syndromes, general nuttiness and other oddities! |
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I just thought this might be an interesting for people to talk about other problems they might have such as ADHD or Aspergers.
Please don't post things on here such as 'I don't think ADHD exists - you're just lazy' or 'people just need to pull themselves together'. I just thought this thread might be useful for people on here to find others on here with similar problems and to discus them
Me? I have:
Definitely:
Gender Dysphoria (well, duh!)
Chronic Motor Tic Disorder with obsessive compulsive behaviour
Possibly:
Synaesthesia
Auditory Processing Disorder
Other:
Disorganisation and poor time management, 'blanking out', high distractibility.
 _________________ Teenager. FTM gender dysphoric 'transgender tomboy'
Now not transitioning after re-discovering God.
http://www.myspace.com/124369317
Reality has a nasty habit of slapping you in the face when you least expect it.
Depression (n) - the state of seeing the world for what it really is.
(All signatures © Kenneth.) 
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Skyler Tzoner


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 934 Location: Canada
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:32 pm Post subject: |
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Well I don't think I even need to mention gender stuff LOL
Social anxiety disorder, severe chronic depression (on meds for the latter and have had a lot of counselling for the former)
Not diagnosed but possibly some OCD (well I should say some OC I wouldn't consider it a disorder since I'm not caused any distress by my obsessively putting things in alphabetical order  )
Not seeked help for but [hopefully] overcame:
Abuse of sedatives
Heavy drinking and near dependence on alcohol
Gambling addiction
wow I sound more messed up than I thought LOL
Otherwise: Lazy, procrastinator, too much carelessness
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Kenneth Tzoner


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 453 Location: UK
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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Oooh - procrastination should be added to my list there
I see what you mean about the OC - I have that, but it seems to merge with the tic disorder, so I just say 'chronic motor tic disorder with obsessive compulsive behaviour', although most of the obsessive-compulsive side has gone now, and is more tics instead.
I ahev been having a lot of mental tics/compulsions lately, and when they're persistant and I try to talk, they almost slip out  Not good when you've got 'f*ck off' going round one's head  _________________ Teenager. FTM gender dysphoric 'transgender tomboy'
Now not transitioning after re-discovering God.
http://www.myspace.com/124369317
Reality has a nasty habit of slapping you in the face when you least expect it.
Depression (n) - the state of seeing the world for what it really is.
(All signatures © Kenneth.) 
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emrock Tzoner

Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 228 Location: London
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:40 pm Post subject: |
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As with everyone else no need to mention gender stuff, thats a little obvious.
Other than that I am doing pretty good, and don't have anything major. I have had periods when i have relied heavily on drink. Though never on my own, only as a way of socilising, in that respect i was almost completely dependent on it. That is until i realised people can like me even when i'm not drunk.
And i have had brief periods of eating disorders. Think i'm over it at the mo, in fact i'm trying to put on weight. But stress and a need to fullfil an ideal body image meant i really didn't eat in the summer. And what i did eat i threw up (soz i kow thats gross). Anyway i think i'm over it now.
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Stella Maru

Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2248 Location: Brighton
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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Kenneth, there is a Yahoo group for trans people with Pervasive Developmental Disorders/Aspergers/autistic spectrum disorder some of whom have a symptom profile not dissimilar to your own.
For reasons that are not yet understood, people with autistic spectrum disorders are over-represented amongst FtMs.
The group is here:
TransgenderPDD@yahoogroups.com
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Kenneth Tzoner


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 453 Location: UK
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 7:57 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks. I don't have a PDD/Autism/Aspergers, but I would like to see the group, but the link is just an email address. Is it supposed to link to a website/web page?
Thanks for the information
| Stella Maru wrote: | | For reasons that are not yet understood, people with autistic spectrum disorders are over-represented amongst FtMs. |
That's really interesting!
| emrock wrote: | | And i have had brief periods of eating disorders...But stress and a need to fullfil an ideal body image meant i really didn't eat in the summer. |
I know what you mean. I don't do anything about it (I love my food too much) but I worry loads about it because I know it'll go straight to the wrong places  _________________ Teenager. FTM gender dysphoric 'transgender tomboy'
Now not transitioning after re-discovering God.
http://www.myspace.com/124369317
Reality has a nasty habit of slapping you in the face when you least expect it.
Depression (n) - the state of seeing the world for what it really is.
(All signatures © Kenneth.) 
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william Tzoner

Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 765 Location: United Kingdom
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 10:20 pm Post subject: |
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i don't have any disorders. but some of my less-useful attributes would be my lack of concentration, organisation and time management.
i'd need to be locked in an empty room with no distractions to get any work done  _________________ forum moderator
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Stella Maru

Joined: 11 Feb 2007 Posts: 2248 Location: Brighton
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Posted: Thu Feb 15, 2007 11:08 pm Post subject: |
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PurplePrincess Advisor


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 2678 Location: Bristol
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:11 am Post subject: |
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I don't know if it is a disorder but my brain does have trouble understanding what people say sometimes. I find that although I can hear what people say to me and I have no problems hearing at all I am quite often asking people to repeat what they have said because I havn't understood them. Also being able to see them speak seems to help, I am absolutely useless at picking up song lyrics too. When I was younger my parents thought that I had a hearing problem but it turned out that my hearing is fine, it's been a mystery to me ever since but as it doesn't cause any great problems then I haven't had it investigated any further.
I have had over 10 years of drug addiction too which I am not proud of at all apart from having the will to give them up. _________________ Chrissy
Forums Moderator.
Always have faith and believe in yourself.
Never run from the truth.
Have the will to change your fate and your spirit will never die.
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Alan314159 Advisor


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 389
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 8:05 am Post subject: |
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| PurplePrincess wrote: | | I don't know if it is a disorder but my brain does have trouble understanding what people say sometimes. I find that although I can hear what people say to me and I have no problems hearing at all I am quite often asking people to repeat what they have said because I havn't understood them. |
I know exactly what you mean, sometimes it's like people are speaking a different language. If I think about it for a few minutes then sometimes I can decode a bit of it. It's not like they're mumbling or talking with an unusual accent either!
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Rob Tzoner

Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 194 Location: Edinburgh, UK
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 10:01 am Post subject: |
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Let me see...
Other than being FtM...
I'm slightly dyslexic, although not so's you'd seriously notice, have had some dependance (and still do- *sigh*) on alcohol... Suffered from depression so severe that I hallucinated, although no longer. Anger hijacks in which I can't recall what I did or what happened- controlling that at the minute and it's improving.
Possibly APD and Synaesthesia (Elm wood threes!).
I was once thought to have Asperger's, although I... don't. Lousy shrink.
Eh... other than that, I'm a sadomasochist, which apparently some people think is a disorder.
*Looks up.* Yeeeeah. I'm nuts.
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Sparkz Advisor

Joined: 14 Feb 2007 Posts: 179
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 10:16 am Post subject: |
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Hi all
Just letting you know that you may find it useful, when looking for people to help you out, to broaden your selection criteria beyond just if a person has the same diagnosis as you.
When a psych is working out how to help a client, they only very rarely base their therapeutic approach on the client's diagnosis. They in the majority of cases tend to look more at things like:
- the history behind the person's distress and difficulties,
- what the client is aware of about themselves, and is unaware of
- the clients coping skills
- the clients strengths
- the clients vision for their future
Additionally, different people can develop different disorders from the same situation. eg some physically abused children will end up with anxiety and post traumatic stress, while others may end up with depression.
What is important in learning to live a fulfilling life (or, to start with, just cope), when you have a particular disorder, is the gaining of:
-resilience
-coping skills
-self awareness (eg how do I tend to react to certain sitautions? how do other people tend to interpret my behaviour)
-knowledge about oneself and social situations
This applies regardless of whether your disorder is biological (ie you were born with it), or whether your disorder was caused by things in your life.
So if looking for others to help you out, you may find it v useful to look for people who have similar causes to their distress/difficulties, and people who have gained skills for similar difficulties to your own. This means that people with other diagnoses can be very helpful!
Cheers
Sparkz _________________ Gender nut and site admin...hehe
My trans research has just been published, see it under 't' in the Tzone library: http://www.transgenderzone.com/library/st.htm
(filename begins with 'Transgender People's Identity Development').
Learning how to generate inner and outer peace in the universe and myself.
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kellineil Advisor


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 93 Location: Edinburgh
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 10:32 am Post subject: |
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lets see
other than the gender stuff
im currently being checked out to see whether i have crohns. _________________ Moderator
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Reenie Reporter


Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 3577 Location: Glasgow
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:08 pm Post subject: |
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| Chrissy wrote: | | I don't know if it is a disorder but my brain does have trouble understanding what people say sometimes. |
Auditory Processing Disorder, I believe. I have precisely the symptoms you have described, Chrissy.
I sit on the edge of the Autistic/Asperger spectrum and suffer anxiety in the presence of others. My Lyrica has proved beneficial in this regard. I have an IQ of 155 too. All of this points to some form of unusual neural development when I was very young, something I believe we all have in common.
Oh yes, we'll have a soupçon of synaesthesia thrown in. My nerves that are responsible for the sensation of touch are overly sensitive, particularly down my sides. And on we go... _________________ The Daily Turnout - King of the Throne Room
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emrock Tzoner

Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 228 Location: London
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Posted: Fri Feb 16, 2007 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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yeah i too have trouble understanding what people are saying. I sometimes think its cos my hearing maybe isn't that good (i used to spend a lot of time while reenacting in close proximity to pyro's and firearms without any ear protection). But most of the time i know i can hear what is being said, i just can't make any sense of it. Lyrics in music are not the same though, i never have much trouble picking up the lyrics to folk music.
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