Hello fellow humans.. Just wanted to say hi.. I'm Jay, live in Cambridgeshire.. dont know a single other person on the planet that has gender issues.. my girlfriend found this site, and im so excited.. it's great when you realise you are not the only screwed up cookie.. lol.. not that i would imply that any of you were.. omg dig myself out of that hole... But no i would love to talk, discuss.. transition.. experiences.. how to straighten out ones head... etc..

Jay

Hey Jay welcome aboard

Look forward to chattin to you.

Nice to be welcomed.. How is life treating you?

hey Jay, welcome to tzone.

don't worry too much about ''straightening your head out'' straight away. get talking, settle in, and things will settle themselves out in time.

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Hi Jay, and welcome to tzone! I'm glad you found us - it's a really good place to get advice and discuss all sorts of stuff.

Dave

Just what i need.. so this is my situation.. always known i wasn't straight.. but did the marriage kids thing.. felt sad and lonely last couple of years.. but found the most amazing partner.. who happened to be a woman.. thought my life was complete.. we have been together for 2 years.. lost loads of weight.. really got into keep fit.. obsessed about wanting muscles.. started thinking this isn't enough.. This body aint right.. i dont feel right.. so cut my hair, wearing more boyish clothes, which makes me feel good.. but it's not enough.. but i have two young kids.. a life as a female.. i dont know if i could put them through anymore.. the kids have accepted my new partner without any problems.. I've read books, watched tv progs.. but i dont know if i have the guts.. is there a place for me.. do i need to go further.. if only i had a magic wand...

Any thoughts anyone

Hi Jay and welcome to tzone.

There are plenty of people here who will know exactly how you feel so you don't need to feel like you are alone.

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Thanks Chrissy.. It's so great to find a place where you dont feel like a complete werido...

Hey JayD, welcome to Tzone - I'm only around once in a while and been away for a month or so - crazy work time but just wanted to say that many of the things you said seem v familiar - be good to chat more sometime! Beck

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