Hi Chad, welcome to tzone
You've got your kid at about the right age; any later they tend to get fixed in their ways. You'll know her best and I doubt there'll be a book already written. Lord knows, if my granny had come with instructions, life would have been a deal easier.
I'm sure there'll be someone with more experience; after all, I don't have kids so I'd better pipe down before a hole digs itself for me.
