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Dani^.^ · Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 61 Location: So Cal

Well for the past two months i have been practicing my voice, i have tried a bunch of times and i can get it to were i like it. so about a moth after that, i could be able to turn it on or off. Well i was talking to this girl (she was so sweet) about math and then all of a sudden without relizing it my voice decided to switch over. well at that point shes looking at me like i just robbed a bank or something, and i tried to get it to go away, no luck. and its still on and its kind of getting uhhh how can i say, bad.

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VanessaTyme · Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 5:20 am Post subject:

THATS GREAT. Probably acward and exciting too but still great. I've gotten in the habit of whispering which means I have to talk twice as much and it still doesn't sound how I would like Evil or Very Mad

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Dani^.^ · Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Posts: 61 Location: So Cal

its not good. not good. today i got called a freak and abunch of other names, so my day was, uhh how can i say.... not one of my best ones.

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**Hellfrozeover** · Advisor Joined: 08 Feb 2007 Posts: 773 Location: UK

You got called a freak like one day Confused

. If something as trivial as that is making you reconsider transition then maybe it's best to reconsider it not for that but for your staying power and how seriously you actually want it. Plenty of people here get worse than that every day and it's not because their voice just blipped, which can actually happen to alot of teenage boys who's voices are changing anyway.

Edit: Going by the MSN sig, not the above bit.

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**Sparkz** · Advisor Joined: 14 Feb 2007 Posts: 179

Hold in there Dani *hug*. What losers for calling you that...

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**Juz** · Advisor Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 1000

I know I sound primitive, but don't pay attention, simple as that.

You only get offended at the names because you allow yourself to be offended, like programming your reaction.

Think of it that way:

Do they want to offend you?
If yes - why should you play in their hand and give them the reaction they want from you?
If no - why get upset at something that was NOT meant to be offensive?