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Thanks a lot everyone. I know it sounds stupid but I need her approval. I also know it's probably very unhealthy for me. I don't know why but her opinion is very important when, logically, it should not.

Things are going better. She gave me many apologies about her behaviour and she wants us to be a team. I'll take the offer I have nothing to lose anyway, plus I'm bored to death at home. Nothing to do except cleaning the house and taking care of my sons.

So... since I can't make money by sitting there, and I have no desire to work at a McDonald at minimum salary, I'll start my own business. I can do commercial websites with Flash animations and java scripts. And Kim is more than tired working as a painter for her boss, when she could be the boss herself with all her years of experience in this domain.

She always wanted to be a paint contractor but she cant handle the admistrative part. She's not good with forms, bank account, laws, publicity, finding clients etc. She wants me to do all that and she will go paint when and where I tell her. I think it's a nice idea.

See, I have two nice options now. I refuse to go down.