in the Winter it wasn't to bad i was wearing a tight fitting t-shirt under my work t-shirt and jumper to hide any development i have. but now its summer it's a little to hot for for 3 layers. does anyone have some advice on something thats a will i can wair that isn't going to be 2 hot and won't be noticed whilst im at work. Bra's are out of the question they'd be noticed. its mainly because my nipples are a bit sore when they rub on my t-shirt if i dont wair anything underneath.

Jess

Maybe this is natures way of telling you to come out hun?

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lol i really want to soon but im trying to hold out for another month or 2 at least untill i move. it's a little rough where i live atm and i dont want to come out to my current work crowd either.
Did think it would be a case of come out or put up with it lol

Yeah. Things can be like that sometimes. I suppose you could say that if it's only 2 months there's nothing to lose too, although if it's a matter of personal safety you're concerned about I can understand that completly.
If coming out really isnt a good idea right then then maybe ask some of the FtM crowd about binding or something? From what I understand though, binding is SHORT TERM ONLY as there are significant health issues that are worth considering.
Do whatever you must hun, but make sure you're safe either way. I dont want you getting beaten up and I dont want you in A&E because of binding or something either

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D&C im sure alot of people can relate here to saying that you always think it is going to be worse than it is and its a bigger deal to people than it really is. As I said to a friend it doesnt matter how much I tell her that it wasnt going to change a thing she would still be scared and worried sick but like alot of the little hurdles you worry about it tends to be like afterwards what was i worrying about god that was nothing etc.

Equally I live in the centre of liverpool one of the cities with the highest proportional homophobic and transphobic crime rates and quite an agressive predjudice place but youll pass better than you think people wont notice you and youll get on with things thinking what was i worrying about. I havent been beat up spat at abused in the street and there are not that many worse places id want to live lol good luck anyway

Binding's not going to help with the overheating problem, I wouldn't think. In my experience, 2 layers of skintight lycra tends to be quite effective at keeping the heat in, unfortunately.

I suppose one other possibility is to say that it's Gynecomastia

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Thanks for all the replies

I know once i go FT i wonder the fuss was about the same happened when i told my mum and also spoke to my GP, it's just building up the confidence to make that step.

I live right near the a small town center, there is very little to do plenty of offy's and a high Chav population not really a great combination. I've come close to being mugged twice outside my house just as i got out of my car. I wouldnt be so worried if trouble wasn't litterally on my door step :S
Work is another matter majority of the people are fine but the managers epecially the store manager are very unprofessional to say the least. I'm one of these people that everyone talks to and the backstabbing i hear from some of the managers is unbelieavble not to mention the information they spread that should be kept confidently it's a joke.


Jess

After three months won herbal hormones I had such boob development that I founf the only way I could kepe them hidden hile wondering how the heck to start transitioning was to sweat under a loose over size sweatshirt - then one of the guys started grappling me and I really ha dstruggle to keep out of his way until one day the stress got too much and told all to the boss and walked out never to return. Life hsa been a mess since then but then I'm Ts so its only to be expected..d

Hi,

I wear a Sloggi Sensual crop top under my work shirt, and it is fine under most. It is seamless and holds your boobs in rather than pushing them up. They are only £8 as well which is pretty reasonable. I have them in white and nude and they work pretty well. I've been wearing them to work for over a year now and not been caught out.

Hope that helps,

N x

Thanks for that, I might have to give them ago. I've ended up either wairing some vest type tops i got or a smallish sleeveless T-shirt from my blokey clothes.

Jess