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gothma_child



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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

iv been on anti depressants before they didnt taste like smarties! they just zombified me ( yes i made up that word!) so i stopped taking them... im seeing my Gp next week and the councellor from the local speak easy youth service. My fantastic manager is keeping tabs on me cuz he's kind like that n he's happy to support me thru it all. Iv been put on 'sick' leave from my placement for a few week to get my head straight. and he's hopefully going to stay in contact when he leaves for cambodia ( lucky sio n so!) i just hope my gp dont think im weird...

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gothma_child



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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks for all your help ya no its apprecitaed by the lost n the lonely!

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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good luck seeing your GP next week! If he or she thinks you're weird, then they have no right to say so - they're there to do a job, and should act in a professional manner towards you - and that means making the appropriate referrals. If you have any hassle whatsoever with them, ask to see a different GP at your surgery, and get your referral from them instead.

Let us know how you get on mate Smile

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gothma_child



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PostPosted: Fri Aug 01, 2008 11:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

thanks will do

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gothma_child



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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 9:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

my gp is refering me to the surgery counccellor and she says its up to him as he's a registered shrink aswell to refer me onto the GC. my deed poll has come thru im now Dwayne Luke Steinman!
( and if the kids call me a trucker...well i got a mouth like one so ..) iv told a few of my friends and they are all really supportive they all call me dwayne altho one insists on calling me 'It'! i know she dont mean it.

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PostPosted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

gothma_child wrote:
altho one insists on calling me 'It'! i know she dont mean it.
Awwww, that does sound very mean, can she not say He and Him? It sounds quite offensive to me.

I can understand people forgetting and calling you by your old pronouns, like She or Her, that is bad enough but can happen easily by accident but calling you It shows that your friend can change what they call you but chose to say It instead of He or Him.

I suppose it's no problem if you don't mind being called that. It doesn't sound very respectful to me.

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gothma_child



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i was always like the kid called 'IT' so its annoying but im sure she'll get there in the end maybe she just dont understand...or is being rather erm..slow about it.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 6:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote


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PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 7:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

my Gp has refered me direct to a psychologist and i hope he agrees with me cuz its frustrating being in the wrong body...I got dumped by my x b/f as he didnt understand and didnt want to be taught either. bummer

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ok so Gavin my lovley manager has now gone to austarila then onto thailand and cambodia for a long time, my new manager swears blind all the 'dwayne' stuff is only a joke..i asked gavin to help me out i guess him dropping 'dwayne' into a convo between everyone at his birthday was his way of sayin well here ya go now spill i dont know i miss him like crazy feel like i should be locked uP ...

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